Want to hear some awesome things I love hearing?
1. You're too awesome for him. Well that's shitty. I don't want to be awesome. I want to be appreciated and be able to appreciate. Not a trophy that no one ever wants to hold or play with or keep or take home to mommy.
2. Are you okay with being alone? Do you like yourself? Yeah well duh I like myself. I'm awesome, remember from step 1? What does this even mean? Give up all my friends and family, trek into the wilderness, build a treehouse and see if I don't go crazy talking to myself? Did I pass? Lol
3. You guys make better friends anyways. Aren't relationships supposed to be built on the best of friendships?? My bad, did I miss something.
4. Be lucky you didn't have kids. Actually, no. They wouldva been adorable. Thanks for asking.
5. And my favorite - you just didn't fit that well. Well, hello, welcome to life. Everyone is different. Everyone you meet is going to break your heart just a little. It's about learning to forgive and love deeper. Not about letting the differences drive you apart. We are all made up of the same stuff and focusing on the differences is the problem...
The shit people say sometimes. I know people have their hearts in the right spot, but maybe stop talking for a minute and listen? I will be just fine. My life is fabulous ~ there is absolutely no sarcasm there. But really, I don't care about your short sighted opinion that you didn't Really think thru anyways. This is me, in pain because people don't think about their words.
I really am good though. I am very blessed. I have supportive friends and family. I have a job that I am passionate about that I am grateful I get to go to every day. I have co workers I can laugh with. I have a home. I have a hungry kitty :) I am grateful. There is no doubt about that. Just frustrated that people really don't think through the things they say that do bite at my heart. I know that I will be fine. I am always better than fine.
I wish love and grace upon you for listening to my rant.
<3 xo
Sarah Anderson
